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People’s Credit

February 24, 2014 Leave a comment

Sometimes you get hurt when someone close doesn’t meet your expectations in any aspect of life. The idea of getting hurt for that reason gets me to wonder how close those people are and based on what do I usually build my expectations.

Close people are the ones you demolish all social and sometimes physical barriers with. A close friend is someone you should have absolutely no social or linguistic barrier with, a boyfriend or a girlfriend is someone who you should have neither social nor physical barrier with.
Depending on how close people are to you, you begin to clear any barrier and start showing off naked. This is where you enjoy being naked as you know that others love your body, mind and soul without any lint.

Expectations are built based on the closeness of a person. Challenges arise when you get too close to someone as their expectations fly exponentially in no time.

The closer you are to someone, the higher expectations they have, the easier you don’t meet their expectations and the more frequent they get hurt because of the reality that didn’t match their expectations.

Every close person has a credit in someone’s heart. A person may have a tiny bit of credit that would be consumed after a couple of times of failing to meet the expectations; others are more fortunate with more finite credit that fades by time which may take years of torn expectations.

The main point here is that this credit is finite and it will never last forever. A trending attitude of disappointing someone’s expectations may lead to fading emotions towards that person leaving the heart with no more credit. On the other hand, one missed expectation may get recovered if the person cared enough to catch it up by topping the broken hearts with lots of credit to end up restoring the balance.

If you ever thought that someone loved you infinitely and would never be gone no matter how badly you treated him and broke his spine, this k again. Every person has a finite credit. Even if the credit is enormous, one day it will be void. Today it is void.

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